Adventurous Family Trip To Crete: All You Need To Know

Know Before You Go

 

• Language: Greek / English

• Currency: Euros

• Transportation: It’s best to rent a car so you can take advantage of exploring the entire island.

• Lodging: We stayed at several AirBnB’s.  Please see below.

• Best Time To Go:  The best time to travel is between mid-May to June, or September to October to beat the summer heat & crowds.

• Plugs: As with most European countries, be sure to bring an international travel adapter.

What Must I Take

 • Water shoes (lots of rocks)

• Sunscreen

• Sunglasses

• Sun hat

• Snorkeling gear

• Sneakers/shoes with good grip, marble is slippery.

• Car charger if renting a car or battery bank

• Euros

Why & When to Visit Crete

If you’re looking to travel beyond Athens, Mykonos, or Santorini, look no further!  From breathtaking beaches, stunning mountains, rich history, and an inviting atmosphere for kids—Crete should be at the top of your list.

Crete isn’t just one of Greece’s largest islands – it’s a whole vibe!  Whether you’re a beach lover, a history buff, or just looking for an unforgettable family vacation, Crete has something for everyone.

Aside from the stunning, beautiful beaches, I was surprised to experience how kid-friendly it is.  

Photo of Marathi beach dock with waving Greek flag

Day 1: Exploring Chania's Old Town

My dad and Brian woke up bright and early to pick up our rental car.  They picked Levi and me from our AirBnB and made our way to Chania’s Old Town.

Here, you can stroll through the colorful streets filled with souvenirs, and restaurants, and walk along the port.

We also found a hidden gem called Tamam.  The food was delightful, the service was impeccable, and the prices were very reasonable.

two images of strolling through Chania's Old town
Photo of Brian and Levi strolling through the harbor during sunset

Be sure to stay for a mesmerizing sunset.  Venture and walk along the port towards the Light House of Chania for magical pictures during this golden hour.

A picture of a prickly pear being cut

We finished our day having a homemade meal at our AirBnB where our host’s parents treated us with prickly pear straight from their front yard!

Day 2: Seitan Limania & Falassarna Beach

We started our day heading towards Seitan Limania.  This is one of the beautiful beaches that is hidden in a cove.  It is a must-visit beach but you must be prepared for the following:

• Steep, narrow hills to drive down towards the “parking space”

• Steep, rocky, and slippery climb both ways. Brian and my father did it.  They reassured me it was not safe to take our toddler, as they were also struggling a bit.  The other way to get there is to rent a boat (That’s exactly what we did the following day!).

I waited in the car for roughly 30 min while Levi napped.  They went down, took a dip, and climbed back up.  At least I was in the company of goats who climbed cars >__<

Photo on the left is of a church before going down to the beach.  Clear royal blue skies.  Photo on the right is a mountain goat who climbed on top of a car. (lol)

On to our next stop! 1hr20min car drive to Falassarna Beach

This slice of paradise is located on the western side of the Island.  Unlike our hidden gem (Seitan Limania), it’s an organized beach with plenty of parking, umbrellas, and lounge chairs for rent.  it is very accessible and family-friendly indeed.  They also have bathrooms which are cleaned constantly and beach showers.

If you rent a cabana, you can choose whether you want full delivery service from the bar or pick a spot on the beach.

As far as the beach itself, there are waves, but I felt pretty safe by the shore with Levi.

Day 3: Boat Rental (Seitan Limania & more)

We were up bright and early to catch our rental boat in Marathi Beach!  It was about a 20-minute ride from our Airbnb.

You have the option of either riding the boat yourself or hiring a captain; we went with the latter (lol).

Seitan Limania was our first stop.  We parked the boat and splashed into the water to swim to the shore.  It was a beautiful landscape of turquoise water and rocky mountains.

We made a few more stops where we were able to snorkel and they were able to jump from cliffs.  As far as Levi, we splashed around in the water, and he even drove the boat for a bit! (Obviously, right next to me)

After we returned the boat, we laid down at Marathi Beach to hang out and have a bite (homemade sandwiches). This was one of Levi’s favorite beaches, as the waters were calm and shallow, with practically no waves.

Crystaline, clear blue water in Marathi Beach

We wrapped up our day by heading home, changing quickly and going back into town to have a delicious souvlaki from Oasis.

Day 4: Road Trip to Rethymno

Nestled between Chania and Heraklion, Rethymno is a charming town that perfectly blends Crete’s rich history and vibrant culture. After driving for 1hr30min we reached our destination of Melodini, Rethymni.

Our second Airbnb was located in this small village.  Our host, Johanna, was raised in Alabama and decided to return back to her and her family’s roots in Crete.  Needless to say, she was amazing.  There were refreshments in the fridge, cookies on the dining table, along with fresh fruit.  She also surprised us with a delicious home-cooked meal!

They also run a family-operated Olive Oil Factory and offer other accommodations.

Rooftop views overlooking Melidoni Village with an overcast of clouds and big mountains
Picture of a quite street in Melidoni.  There's a wheel and barrel with cascading pink flowers on top
Photo of a well with the sunsetting in Melodini

We walked around the village before heading into town at the Old Venetian Harbour (30-minute drive).

Rethymno is a University town, and there’s no denying it.  The Old Venetian Harbour is a beautiful place to walk no matter the time of day.  There are blocks upon blocks filled with restaurants featuring different cuisines, lively tavernas, and tons of shopping everywhere you turn.

We had a quick bite and a few drinks at this restaurant called The Whistler.  We ordered a steak platter to share and chicken fingers for Levi.  Everything was tasty, but the music and vibes stole the show! (great throwbacks)

Photo of the moon surrounded by dreamy clouds, overlooking melodini.

We went back to the house, where we enjoyed a nice bottle of Rose while listening to salsa and moonbathing.  

Day 5: Kalypso & Plakias Beach

When it comes to Crete, breathtaking beaches are a given—but if you’re looking for unique experiences off the beaten path, Kalypso and Plakias should be at the top of your list.

The drive to Kalypso was magical, as you can see below.

The only way to get down is using some run-down stairs.  There are no bathrooms.

Picture of the scenic road to Kalypso beach surrounded by beautiful larger-than-life mountains

We arrived around 3:00 pm; it was super windy for Levi and me to swim in the shallow water.  The waves were hitting extremely hard against the rocks, and truthfully it wasn’t as hot and sunny as the previous days.

However, if your cup of tea is diving or snorkeling, then this is the place for you! Brian and my dad jumped off, and honestly, I was petrified because of the crashing waves, but I’m thankful they made it out okay

Photo of sunbeds at Kalypso Beach

Just a short drive from Kalypso lies Plakias Beach, a long stretch of golden sand that offers a more laid-back vibe. There is a tikki bar right on the beach, perfect for sitting around during golden hour.

By the time we arrived, it was incredibly windy, and once again, the waves were hitting hard against the shore.  I recommend going here first, early in the day, then taking your dip in Kalypso, especially if you are traveling with children.

Photo collage of Plakias beach during sunset.  On the right there are three small polaroids of the food we ate and a picture of Levi smiling.

We finally had a late lunch in Paligremnos Taverna and it did not disappoint! It was super fresh and tasted like a delicious meal made at home.

Day 6: Livadi Beach & Heraklion

The last town to explore was Heraklion.  We started our day with a Freddo Cappuccino (as we did every day), and off we went!

Before making our way to our last Airbnb, we made a pit stop at Livadi Beach!  We had sunny skies all morning, and soon after we rented our pedal boat, it started to get gloomy.  

We made it halfway, jumped in the water, and returned to shore.  Even though it was short-lived, thanks to the storm, this was so much fun!

Let me tell you one thing: driving in Crete, I mean Greece overall, is a nightmare.  The roads are narrow, steep, and snake-like, and to top it off, they have no barriers.  Thank God for Brian taking the wheel because I couldn’t have done it (no really,, it was a manual car foot-in-mouth).

Our Airbnb was atop a mountain.  It was a beautiful home but nonetheless a bit intimidating to get there.

Two photos. (left) Brian and I sitting down in front of our Airbnb.  (Right) A picture of the living room featuring a plant.

Day 7: Paleokastro & Voulisma Beach

This was our last beach day and we made it our goal to make the best of it.  These two beaches were my absolute favorite from the entire trip!

Paleokastro Beach was only a 15 minute ride from our AirBnB so we started our day here.  It was smaller than other beaches, but parking was rather easy and there were only a few locals by the time we arrived.

It is a great swimming spot for the entire family as the waters are calm and crystal clear (don’t be surprised to find a shoal of fish swimming next to you as well).

Photo collage of Levi and I sitting at the beach.  Crystal clear water surrounded by rugged rocks

After a morning/ afternoon full of sun, off we went to our final destination, Voulisma Beach! (1hr drive from there)

Located on the northeastern coast of Crete, Voulisma Beach boasts a long stretch of golden sand and breathtaking turquoise water.  

When we arrived (4 p.m.), it was fairly packed, but the water was the warmest we had experienced on the island.  Parking was easy (along the main road).  There is an “adult only” tikki bar before you head down to the beach as well.  

Before taking the stairs to the beach, there was another bar/restaurant open to the public, where we bought food and drinks to enjoy downstairs.  

 

We loved everything about this beach from the calmness and warmth of the water to the music from the bar that can be heard down at the beach.  The atmosphere was great and was very clean overall!

We headed back towards Heraklion, where we made reservations at Athali.  This restaurant specializes in Authentic Cretan Cuisine. Everything we had in Crete was delicious, but this was the absolute best.  We ordered lamb chops, feta cheese saganaki (obsessed), meat pie, kebab athali, and lamb souvlaki.  

A photo collage of Athali restaurant.

Day 8: Last Day in Crete

For the most part, we spent our time walking around Heraklion Old Town, buying last-minute souvenirs and grabbing bites of food.

If you want to do some shopping, the inner streets have a great variety of stores and even better sales!

One thing you must try before you leave, is the cheese Bougatsa (filo dough pastry filled with either spinach, cheese or sweet cream) from Kikor! hand down, it’s one of the best ones I’ve had!

Photo collage showing a water fountain on the left. And three pictures of food on the right. (Bougatsa, Caprese crepe, and Greek burger)

To wrap it up, we had an incredible time in Crete, and if I could, I would do it all over again! It’s not just a destination, but memories in the making.  From splashing in crystal turquoise waters to indulging in local flavors, this is one of the perfect places to relax in Greece without the chaos of Mykonos or Santorini.  Gather your crew, pack your bags, and let this incredible island show you the time of your life. <3

The Ultimate Guide to Thrifting in New York

The Ultimate Guide to Thrifting in New York

Why Thrift in New York City

This guide to thrifting in New York City includes tips such as where to shop, useful tips, and what to look for. Besides being one of the world’s fashion capital, NYC is also a haven for thrifters and vintage lovers.

Whether you’re a seasoned thrifter or new to second-hand shopping,  NYC has something for every taste and budget.  It offers an eclectic mix of styles, ranging from high-fashion to retro classics. Another benefit of thrifting is that it reduces your carbon footprint and helps reduce waste.

Best Neighborhoods to Thrift in NYC

From experience, these are the best neighborhoods where I’ve found the best deals and brand-name pieces for a really good price.  I’m sure there are plenty more, and if you have one, please don’t hesitate to comment below!

 

  • East Village: Known for quirky boutiques and vintage treasures, East Village is a must-visit for any thrifter.
  • Williamsburg, Brooklyn: Trendy and packed with curated thrift stores and vintage shops, Williamsburg is great for finding rare pieces.
  • SoHo: With a mix of high-end consignment stores and local thrift shops, SoHo offers fashion-forward options.
  • Lower East Side: This area features affordable thrift stores with a great mix of styles.

 

 

Top Thrift Stores in New York City

Thrifting in NYC is more than just shopping; it’s a treasure hunt through decades of style and culture. Whether you’re searching for vintage treasures, affordable fashion, or sustainable gems, the thrift scene here in New York has it all.

  • L Train Vintage (Multiple Locations): Known for budget-friendly finds and unique styles, this store is a favorite among NYC thrifters, myself included.
  • Beacon’s Closet (Williamsburg, Manhattan): Popular for its large selection and high-quality pieces, Beacon’s Closet is ideal for curated vintage.
  • Housing Works Thrift Shops (Multiple Locations): This is a non-profit whose proceeds benefit charity.  You will find everything from designer finds to home goods.
  • Crossroads Trading: A resell store where you can buy high-quality and designer pieces at a fraction of the price.
  • Dresses for Less:  Not particularly a thrift store, but you can find a wide selection of brand name cocktail, evening, prom, and casual dresses ranging from $15-$20.  They also sell coats, jackets, shoes, and purses.  Be sure to arrive early as they re-stock everyday. (9226 Merrick Blvd, Jamaica)
I'm wearing an outfit I found on Crossroads Trading. The pictures on the right show the outfit details. The top right is a black mock-neck top from Forever 21. The bottom right is a leopard midi skirt I found for $12 from Zara.

 

 

Nuggets of Wisdom: Tips For Successful Thrifting

There’s an array of wonderful things in the world of thrifting, but like with most things, early bird gets the worm.  If possible, try to go early in the day to get first access to new arrivals since they tend to restock regularly.

Keep an open mind.  Thrift stores don’t always carry the latest trends.  Don’t be afraid to try DIY to add your unique personal touch, as I show above.

If you’re lucky, you may be able to find some pieces that have never been worn, but this is mostly never the case.  Remember to inspect for quality.  Some thrifts may require minor repairs, but remember you can score great designer pieces in overall good condition.

Becoming A Fashion Designer: A Day In The Life

Becoming A Fashion Designer: A Day In The Life

Becoming A Fashion Designer: A day in the life

A photograph of myself surrounded by female models during one of my fashion shows in 2014

From Dreams

To Reality

Becoming a fashion designer was the one thing I was always certain of.   As a child, I’d sketch outfits and spend hours imagining different ways to put together looks.

It wasn’t until later in life, after trying other paths, that I allowed myself to embrace fashion. The turning point came when I decided to follow my passion and pursue formal training in fashion design. I enrolled in FIT while working as a legal assistant and attending John Jay College.  I was rejected the first time, but I refined my portfolio and was successful the second time.

The journey was fun but challenging. The most valuable lesson was learning to stay true to my design aesthetic while adapting to the fast-paced industry.

Eventually, I launched my collection Sarango NY in 2014 during NYFW as a 21st birthday present to myself, and that’s when things came full circle.

Steps to Becoming a Fashion Designer

 

1.  Enrich Your Passion for Fashion – Get Inspired

Explore fashion history, trends, and your personal style. Watch runway shows on Vogue, swipe through Pinterest, follow fashion magazines, and observe street style to understand the vast world of fashion.

2. Develop & Polish Your Skills

Designers need both creativity and technical skills. Take courses in fashion design, whether through formal education or online platforms. Learn to sketch designs, understand fabrics, and work with sewing techniques. Software skills, like Adobe Illustrator and CAD (computer-aided design), are also essential for creating digital designs.

3. Build a Portfolio

This is how you showcase your talent.  Start creating your designs and experimenting with different styles. Include sketches, finished garments, and mood boards to show your creative process and vision.

4. Gain Practical Experience

Hands-on experience is invaluable. Look for internships or assistant roles with established designers or fashion houses. This will give you insight into the fashion industry’s inner workings, from fabric sourcing to runway shows, and help you build industry connections.

5. Start Your Brand or Work for a Fashion House

Once you’ve honed your skills and gained experience, decide whether to launch your fashion brand or work for an established fashion house. Both paths offer unique rewards and challenges. If you’re starting your label, build a business plan, market your designs, and focus on developing a brand that resonates with your target audience.

A picture of my mom, myself and my sister during my Fashion show in 2014

A Day In The Life

 

Morning:  

My mornings start with an Iced latte as I settle down and scroll through various e-mails.  I reply to the vendors we work with and review fabric samples.  I review yesterday’s work to see what we need to catch up with today.

Mid-Morning:

I sit down with my sketchbook and start my creative process.  As I scroll through trends, fashion magazines, and Pinterest, I begin to sketch the next collection.  I create a color-card and mood board in Illustrator.

Early Afternoon:

I enjoy lunch with my son.  Once I’m done, I edit a few photos using Adobe Photoshop / Lightroom, and then I’ll go to our website and add new products.

Late Afternoon:

Today, we received a few sample pieces and performed a quality inspection.  Next, we do fittings while jotting down notes and taking pictures to send back to the factory.  This is actually my favorite part of the day, as I love to see the designs come to life!

Evenings:

I review the sketches/designs we’re set on and make tech packs on Illustrator to send to the manufacturer.  I also gather all the notes from our fitting and make a uniform file to send back to them asap.

While I unwind from today’s work, I make tomorrow’s to-do list.  I check our social media and work on creating marketing campaigns for that week.

Actress Dascha Polanco wearing a handmade lace dress from my spring collection. She's on the cover of Latina Magazine.

Actress Dascha Polanco Wearing Sarango NY top

collage of models wearing Sarango NY

Sarango NY Editorial

Keep Learning & Evolving

Following these steps can help you navigate the journey toward becoming a fashion designer, whether you aim to work for a top brand or launch your label.

Above all, surround yourself with people who share your values, career goals, and a supportive network.  Be sure to stay true to yourself, put in the work, and let the creativity flow.

If you have any other questions or comments, let’s connect below or send me a quick e-mail!

A very last minute trip to korea/philippines

A very last minute trip to korea/philippines

“As I’m eating dinner on monday night, Brian mentions the idea of going to the Philippines the following day, as crazy as it sounded to me, I was ready to pack my bags and leave!”

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What to expect

    • Language: Tagalog/English
    • Currency: Philippine peso
    • Plugs: Bring converter
    • Passport/Visas: US Passport OK / check the Philippine Tourism website for more details
    • Best time to visit: Peak season is from mid-December to mid-April being the hottest and driest season.  Rainy season is between June and October.

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Planning Our Trip:

We didn’t. We had been speaking of taking a long haul flight somewhere in the weeks to come but that was it.  Nothing was set in stone, nothing was booked. As I’m having a nice dinner at home on Monday night, Brian approaches me and we start playing with the idea of going to the Philippines. Next thing you know, we’re pulling an all nighter packing to catch a 5am flight and make our connection to Seoul, South Korea. All within less than 24hrs!! If last minute was a person/people then we would be it. This is not for the faint of heart, but if what you like is taking risks then I say go for it and make it WERK!

 A lot people will have their personal opinions about this and that’s alright but this is ours.  We have always loved traveling and exploring new cultures, places and hidden gems. As soon as we welcomed our son, we got his passport and continued on with the adventures. He has now been to 5+ countries and counting, we don’t regret a single trip. Yes he will not remember but you are opening up his eyes to the cultures of the world and igniting a passion for travel. Yes it might be hard at times but take it for what it is, these are memorable memories you are making together.

With this being said, preparation is key when traveling with children! I have a few nuggets of wisdom but if you have other tips and tricks please do make sure to comment so we can all stay in the loop as well!

Preparing for a long haul flight with a toddler:

•Snacks! (This will keep those tantrums at bay for a little while)

Inflatable foot rest  set this DIY “first class bed” up and they’ll have some decent sleep for a good few hours.

•A magic coloring book!

•A few magnetic tiles and let their imagination run

•One or two changes of clothes of course

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Transiting through Seoul, South Korea

Surprisingly, Levi behaved so well during our 16hr flight from Detroit to Seoul.  We decided to stay for one day on our way there, and our way back to the states, just to mitigate the chaos a bit and rest as much as possible.  With a total of two days in South Korea, we were able to explore a bit but not as much as we would have liked to. Below are some of our recommendations.

 

A Taste of Seoul

As much as we wanted to try Korean BBQ, sorry to disappoint but we didn’t.  The first night we just wanted to have a light bite and on our way back, I wasn’t feeling really well by the time we decided to try it.  All of that being said, the packed streets of Myeong-dong were filled with the delicious smell of street food everywhere we turned.  We encountered everything from cheese pancakes to octopus, and even fried oreo churros.  I wish I would have tasted each and every cart to give a better review but my gut was not having it.

We did get a chance to eat a these two places which were excellent!

 

Aside from a cozy semi-private setting upstairs, this Michelin star restaurant offers dishes such as dumplings, noodle soups, boiled beef, and one of our favorites were the fish and vegetable pancakes.

 

2.  Korean BBQ Restaurant (뱃터양꼬치)

This was a small place we randomly walked into, our first night in Seoul.  It was in Incheon, not too far from the airport. I loved everything we ordered, especially the egg fried rice, yummy! Their specialty are lamb skewers!

WHERE TO SHOP

The only place we really explored was Myeon-dong, and let me tell you that was all I needed for everything I needed to shop for.  You might know by now, Koreans are known for their skin care products and what better place to get all the goodies at?

Our first stop was at Olive Young, which is basically a really big store just dedicated to skin care, make up, scalp care etc.  You can find thousands of products here, especially the viral tik tok products people rave about.  Below was some of the “splurging” I did.  Wish I could have bought more but we’ll see how my skin reacts to these first.

You can visit the Olive Young website  and use my code VIASARANGO20 to get 5% off your purchase / or click the links below to find them on Amazon!

 

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1 Day in Manila

Where to stay in Manila:

Makati is a bustling metropolis which we can safely say it’s the central business district of the Philippines.  It is a great place to stay for first-time goers, since it is vibrant, full of life and overall safe.  We stayed at the Citadines Benavidez hotel and they were beyond accomodating.  It is fairly new and everything from the amenities to the food was fantastic.

WHERE TO SHOP

Philippines take pride in their malls and let me tell you, it shows!  This was the biggest and most dynamic shopping center I’ve been to. You can find Everything from a movie theater, dentist, hair salons and more.  Interestingly enough, even with my major in Fashion design, I don’t really enjoy shopping, but let me tell you this, their department store called The Landmark, is all my shopping dreams could ever be. I wanted to take every single item on the shelves. Not only because they had really pretty things but the price was unbelievable. Two tops and a pair of pull on bottoms for $15!  The department store is located inside Glorietta Mall, you can find everything from high-end luxure stores, to the department store I mentioned above and more. 

What to eat:

Ok now to the real fun part. I’ve never really had Filipino food other than the occasional lumpia and jolibee spaghetti. Everything was about to change with my first bite of Sisig.

MANAM 

Comfort Filipino food. The first sip of that Ube shake and a bite of their homemade crispy sisig blew my tastebuds out! I didn’t know what to expect and I think that’s what made it even better.

•House crispy sisig (like small pieces of chicharron with delicious mayo based sauce)

•Beef Salpicao

•Lumpia

•Beef tapsilog (thinly sliced sweet-salty peppery beef with crunchy garlic rice and a fried egg) this is a Filipino breakfast which I honestly ate at any hour of the day. 

Budget: All of this for $36 USD!

WILDFLOUR RESTAURANT

We decided to head here right before catching our flight to Palawan. Pretty scenery inside the Glorietta mall with perfect weather to sit outside and enjoy a nice brunch.

•Assorted pastries (my favorite was the cronut)

•Blue dreams shake

•Hong Kong milk tea (Brian rates 5 of 5)

•Beef tapas (so yummy even our picky eater ate it!)

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Palawan Island

Day 1: Puerto Princesa

Palawan is known to be one of the worlds most beautiful islands, and trust me, it is everything people boast about and more.  We have decided to stay one day here and explore as much as we could so we could have more time around El Nido and its beaches in the coming days. 

where to stay:

This AirBnB apartment was our go to. It is a spacious 2BR duplex right near the city center, and it was also just a few minutes from the airport. Everything was walking distance, from bars, supermarkets, pharmacies and even a crossfit gym right across!

where to eat/drink:

J1 KTV & BAR: Around the corner from our Airbnb we had a fun bar, where even Levi was welcomed ! We left shortly after 8pm when the crowd started to arrive.  Good drinks and finger food, as well as great music!

EIGHTYNINE CAFE:  Right before we left for El Nido, we had breakfast at this small but mighty cafe and it did not disappoint.  We ordered tapsi, a traditional breakfast, lemon sour spritz , matcha latte, and a Bailey’s coffee pictured below. 

Budget: All of this totaling roughly $20 USD.

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El Nido

 

Getting to paradise

Stay with me here, after all these flights and jet-lag, this is the last stretch. Palawan, if you didn’t know, is named as one of the top islands of the world.  If we were able to manage with a two year old, so can YOU!

From Puerto Princesa to El Nido, you have to take a 4.45 ride either in a shared van or rent a car and drive at your own pace (like we did) we paid roughly $67 USD to rent a car for 4 days, meanwhile the ridesharing starts at about $9.  You can also book a flight from Manila to a private airport (ENI) which starts roughly at $250 roundtrip.

The roadtrip sounds long, but you can see so much of the people from Palawan, their culture and interact with them.  Our favorite was chatting up with a group of young kids and their parents while making a quick stop, and the minute we offered them milkshakes (which is what the store was known for) their eyes lit up.  It was such an unforgettable experience for all of us.

 WHERE TO STAY

High Chaparral Cottages :   

This is THE place to stay.  “Far enough from the crowded streets, but still 5 min. away from the center of town”. The best way I can describe it, it’s like being in a mini farm which my son and myself absolutley loved.  There were baby goats roaming around, chicken, hens, roosters, dogs, even a cow! Safe to say they have them under control and they are lovely animals overall! This was definitely a plus for us.  Hospitality from the heart goes a long way, and they were truly exceptional.  Everyone from Nita, Hans to Arleen and Boisy were wonderful, it was one of the best customer experiences I’ve had since they make you feel like family the minute we walked in (give them a warm hello from us if you go!).

Budget : Roughly $160/ night

 WHERE TO EAT

 

This part of the island is where you will find all the tourist, so naturally they cater more to tourists therefore offering a variety of cuisines to chose from.  We had everything from Thai to Italian, Japenese and local food! Below are some of the ones we visited.

Gorgonzola Pizzera –  A family style setting where you sit wherever you find a seat.  Lovely cozy place with tons of options from pasta to pizza and more.  We opted for the 16″ half 5 cheese / half tropical w/ no jalapenos.  I also enjoyed a refreshing glass of frozen mint lemonade!

AP Kala Beach Bar  and Modern Cafe – One of our favorites due to the spacious setting and open concept.  One of the many places to lounge in a sofa, while sipping your favorite drinks and having appetizers.  We ordered the calamari, turkey sandwich, fried pork belly and shrimp.

Big Bad Thai- YUM! very crowded but mighty place.  I was craving some thai and we ended up here and let me tell you everything was delicious! Started off with shanghai lumpia, and chicken skewers as appetizers.  As far as entress, Brian and I shared the cashew chicken which was enough for both of us.

High Tides – Stumbled upon this bistro on our last night in El Nido and safe to say it was a fun night.  Filipinos love karaoke so of course there was a band doing karaoke downstairs which I personally jammed to because I loved all of their song choices.  That night we opted for sushi (really good) and fries as appetizers, beef bulgogi and the tempura platter.  They did have a happy hour (buy one and get one free) which we definitely took advantage of.

Hama Cafe – A very simple, yet aesthetic looking cafe, with plenty of good choices for breakfast.  Our favorites were the fruit bowl, and beef tapas.  Brian was also obsessed with their matcha latte.

Budget: All meals with appetizers and drinks included range from $37-$60USD max.

WHERE TO BEACH / ISLAND TOURS

There are several tours offered in the island.  These often take you from 4-5 islands per day where you can explore beautiful beaches, see caves, kayak and even snorkle.  This is the one we chose and we couldn’t have made a better choice (Life’s simple pleasures).  They went above and beyond to make sure Levi and I were okay in the water, leaving and getting into the boat and I will forever be grateful with them.  You can check out the different tours on their FB account and see the pricing as well.

We chose Tours A and B.  They start roughly at about 8-9am each day and you get back into the docking area at around 5pm.  Be sure to bring a waterproof bag (like this one), a waterproof case for your phone, some snacks, plenty of water and tons of sunblock! The tour does stop at a beach and provides lunch which is already included, just be sure to bring cash to buy refreshments at some of the islands.

Lido Beach & Nacpan Beach

Just 45 minutes from El Nido, you can catch a ride to Nacpan Beach.  For some reason, this was by far our favorite beach, maybe it was the long stretch of white sand, the daybeds to lounge on or my pina colada served in a coconut.  Whatever it was, it was magical.  Levi loved being in the water as there are no waves, as well as making sandcastles and playing soccer with Arleen <3.

Note: Lido is only 10-15 min from El Nido “center” and it is a perfect place to watch the sunset.  There are many restaurants/bars/ lounges on the bar facing the beach and a nice long boardwalk on the water.

 

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Wrapping up our trip!

This has been a once in a lifetime trip that was much needed by our family.  We learned so much from one another and we grew closer than ever.  We are grateful to have met such beautiful souls, and despite their tragedies they still move forward and bring genuine smiles to the table.  Filipinos are welcoming, hardworking, warm individuals who are willing to go the extra mile to help you in any kind of way, or at least that’s the experience we were blessed with.  Thank you Korea and The Philippines for an unforgettable trip! 

If you’ve ever been and / or plan to go, please comment below for more tips, questions and concerns! 

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From Bump to Baby: Essential Pregnancy Advice

From Bump to Baby: Essential Pregnancy Advice

Congratulations on embarking on this beautiful journey of pregnancy!  Whether you’re experienceing your first sysmptoms, seeing the first signs of a baby bump or counting down the weeks until your baby makes their first appearance, this time is filled with excitement, questions and. a few surprises.

Proper prenatal care and knowing what to expect can make this journey smoother and more enjoyable.  I’ve put together some essential tips and pregnancy advice to help you navigate through each stage.

First trimester

My greatest blessing in life was being able to form a life inside of me and give birth to my little miracle baby as I call him. Navigating pregnancy has got to be one of the most perplex roller coaster of emotions I’ve ever experienced.

Between hormonal changes and your body trying to adapt to its new “tenant,” you will be going through one of the most remarkable transformations of your life, yet this doesn’t mean it’s always magical.

The first few weeks it’s all fun and games sharing the news with your loved ones. You’re filled with joy, love, anxiety, questions, and more. Moving past this is when the first sign of unexpected morning sickness comes and that’s when it sinks in.

I paused my aviation job for some time and started working elsewhere. Living in NYC meant having to take the train into the city which meant being nauseous from the first to the last stop so the snacks below really came in handy.

For Nausea

  • Keep saltine crackers or cheerios next to the bed
  • Iced water or frozen snacks
  • Lemon water
  • Keep a plastic bag with you when it hits unexpectedly
  • Ginger chews

Embrace The Newness

  • Early Appointments: Schedule your first prenatal visit as soon as you can and build a strong foundation with your provider.
  • Nourish Your Body: Start pre-natal vitamins and focus on a balanced diet of lean proteins, veggies, and fruits.
  • Dealing With Symptoms: Keep your favorite snacks at hand.  Eat what makes YOU feel better so long as it’s not harmful, you’ll be able to make healthier decisions in the trimesters to come.  Small, frequent meals and lots of rest can be lifesavers.
  • Lifestyle Tweaks: Take it easy on your workouts while the baby settles into its newfound home, you can go hard in the other trimesters.

My First Trimester Go-to's

  • Preggie Pop Drops 
  • Ginger Chews
  • Iced lemon infused water
  • Frozen fruit (the only thing I could eat due to my morning sickness)
  • Nature Made Prenatal Vitamins

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Second Trimester: Enjoy Your Glow!

This is often the sweet spot of pregnancy.  Around this time most of your symptoms have subsided and your energy levels are back up for the most part.  While all of this was true for me, it was also one of the most critical moments of my pregnancy.

Beginning the second trimester just shy of 4 months, I get a call from my doctor advising me one of the genetic testing results came back inconclusive for Trisomy 18 (Edward’s syndrome).

My heart sunk. My mind was a blur, I had so many questions going through my head but I couldn’t put my words together.   She tried to explain to me this wasn’t definitive and we needed more testing to diagnose properly.  I was quickly transferred to a family psychologist to ease me into the process and answer any and all questions I had. I broke down and started praying.  Nobody had prepared me for this but we still kept our faith.

They immediately scheduled me for an amniocentesis.  If you’ve never heard of this term, it is a process in which they extract the amniotic fluid from your placenta which they then test to find any abnormalities.

The procedure is done without any sort of anesthesia, as they stick a huge needle through your belly and into your placenta to extract the fluid.

To say the least it felt really uncomfortable and painful, and waiting for the results for three weeks felt like a lifetime.  At this point in time we weren’t rooting for a “girl” or a “boy”. There was no gender reveal party.  We were ultimately just praying for a healthy baby.  Lo and behold the results came back and there he was, a perfectly healthy baby boy.

 

“The Honeymoon Phase” 

If you’re lucky, your symptoms have vanished into thin air, the aversions are gone with the wind, and you have enough energy to continue doing your regular squats, deadlifts, etc.  These were by far my favorite months.

  •  Boost Of Energy:  Perform squats, deadlifts, and weight lifting as much as possible as long as your provider gives you the green light.  This will help open your pelvis if you plan to have a natural birth.
  • Enjoy your bundle of joy:  Show off your baby bump, wear that cute outfit, go out on dates, take pictures, and document your journey.
  • Mid-Pregnancy Milestones: Around this time, you’re more likely to get a glucose test and an anatomy scan.
  • Moisturize: You should be moisturizing every day, but this phase is critical as your body is rapidly stretching, and this is when stretch marks start to form on your belly, breasts, and legs at times.  They will itch a lot, but refrain from scratching them and lather them with good ol’ shea butter.
  • Plan your baby moon: Since I was feeling so much better we decided to head to Mallorca and had such a wonderful time.  This was also the first time I felt baby L’s kick! more like little bubbles, but it was the first time I felt him!

 

Photo of my pregnant self on a beach in Mallorca.

My Second Trimester Go-to's

  • Palmers Stretch Mark Oil
  • Shea Moisture : 100% raw shea butter
  • Sweet almond oil
  • Huge body pillow

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Third Trimester: Preparing for Baby’s Arrival

Entering the third trimester is about preparing everything for the baby’s grand entrance.  Around this stage, heartburn starts showing up, your feet start to swell (mine grew a whole size) and daily tasks get just a tiny bit more complicated.

My back never really hurt and I probably owe it to the stretching and amount of exercise I was doing. One thing that hurt a lot was the ligaments on the lower sides of my tummy.  These are called growing pains which are normal but yet really uncomfortable.  I found this maternity belt, which helped the pain and pressure from the belly overall.

 

Nuggets of Wisdom

  •  Continue working out:  If your healthcare provider still says it’s okay, please continue your workouts even just 30 min a day.  It will make a really big difference.
  • Take care of swollen feet:  Soak your feet in epsom salt, elevate them, and then wear your compression socks as often as needed
  • Meditate: Prepare youself emotionally and mentally for what is to come and seek support if needed.
  • Prep Your Hospital Bag: Honestly you don’t need half the things you think you do.  Most hospitals provide the essentials you need for your stay.  The only things I packed and used were comfy PJ’s, babies first outfit,
  • Gather postpartum essentials: Start putting together your kit at least 4 weeks before baby is due (mine arrived 3 weeks early and thankfully I had everything I needed at hand.) Below are the products I used over and  over again while recovering from a natural birth.

 

My Third Trimester Go-To's

Maternity support belt